Gail Got De-Railed…Boy, you’re not kidding. There is nothing worse than investing time, emotion and your body into a relationship…that isn’t there. The best defense against this I have found is communication.  I know you don’t want to jump out of the gate early while dating and reveal all, but now that I think of it, that is exactly what I did with my husband. Luckily, he was the one so I didn’t crash and burn. But you can usually tell when the guy is as into you as you are into him.  Be honest, with yourself and him. And communicate! Be Brave and Good Luck!